Tuesday, June 14, 2011

The retirement of this blog

It's been a few weeks since I've blogged... a lot has happened, mainly that we've gone through separation and divorce - the papers were filed this afternoon.  Of course, I am devastated.  It has been a rough couple of weeks, and that's an understatement.  We've been trying really hard to make it work for some years now, and it is just not going to happen.  But the bright side is, that he remains my best friend, and I his, and for that I am grateful.

Clearly, this must needs be the end of "geoffandcali.blogspot.com."  I'm sure I'll start another blog at some point, but I'm going to take a break for awhile until I get some things figured out, like what to do with my life next, and hopefully get settled into something before too long.  I've been counciled to put my trust in God, so, I'm trying to figure out just what that means, and do it.  Right now I'm just trying to trust that things will turn out okay eventually.  I think they will.

Loves to everyone.

11 comments:

Jessica GaleForce said...

Oh Cali, I am so sorry!! i never know exactly what to say, when hard things happen in my friends lives. I do, however, know that everything happens for a reason, its always okay in the end, its just getting through those thorn bushes of life that block our path. Sometimes we cant go around, but must go through them. But there are others on the path, they are there to help gird you up. Christ is there with you every step of that thorny path, to give you peace, comfort and love.

I hope you know how wonderful you are!! It's true :D IF YOU NEED A.N.Y.T.H.I.N.G, let me know. Movie, pedicure, lunch, crazy time at Plato's closet (hahaha) anything!! I am here for you!! And prayers are coming you way LovelyLady!!

<3 Jess

Lyndsie or Richard said...

Cali, I know that we're not really close, but I really care about you and through your blog I feel like I've gotten to know you all over again. I'm hurting for you today, but I know that wonderful things are in store for you. I'm so sorry you have to go through this, but please know you're not alone. If I can be of help in any way, please don't hesitate to let me know. And please let me know if/when you start a new blog.

blakeandcourt said...

Cali, I am so sorry! My heart is breaking for you! Like the other comment, I have been having such a good time getting to know you again hope you know how many people love and support you.

Denise said...

My heart is broken to. But I know the Lord will look after you. I will always love you!!! And you will always be in my life!!!

Jeff and Sarah said...

Cali, when I first read this post I thought it was a joke. I just saw your mom at the grocery store and she told me how excited you were to go to New York! I was so happy for you, and now I'm sad for you! I think you are one of the prettiest girls I've ever met, and I'm glad to know you. You will make through this, and probably come out stronger on the other side! Best wishes!
Sarah Peterson Curtis

Staci... said...

Miss Cali! I am so sorry!!! I am sorry you are going through such a hard time right now!! I love you tons!!! Much love and prayers are with you!!!

mostlyprobably said...

Cali, I started writing a huge comment and then it got too long. If you want to read it, I posted it on my blog. If not, that's okay too. But just my feelings on post-divorce and what worked for me.

I hate that you're going through this. Divorce blows. Praying for you.

Holly & Kasey said...

Cali! I'm so sorry to hear about your divorce. My prayers will be with you!! If there is something I can do, please don't hesitate to ask.

The Garrett family said...

Cali I am so sorry. This breaks my heart. I wish nothing but happiness for you and Geoff both.

laskuh said...

Oh, hon. I can't even imagine the heartache. I don't know why in the world something like this should ever happen to someone so sweet and beautiful as you are. I hope you can find the good out of it and come back stronger than ever before. I'm so sorry you have to go through this. But I'm happy to know that you come from a very strong family and have a caring circle of friends who will surely support you. If you need anything, please let me or any of us Greensies know. We love ya and hate to see you sad. (not that we see you much anymore, sadly, but we still feel it!)

Camilla Wilcox said...

Wow, that's crappy. I hope everything works out better in the end. We send our love to you and Geoff.